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Mary Melissa Howell

Female 1838 - 1917  (79 years)


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Generation: 1

  1. 1.  Mary Melissa Howell was born 22 Jan 1838, Centereach, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 14 Jun 1917, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Mary married Ebenezer Darling 22 Jan 1855, , Suffolk, New York, United States. Ebenezer (son of Henry Darling and Margaret A. Nichols) was born 22 Jan 1834, Smithtown, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 5 Apr 1909, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 2. Henry Clay Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 9 May 1856, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 1871, Lost at sea.
    2. 3. Caroline Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 22 Jun 1858, , Town of Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Aug 1938, Commack, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    3. 4. Captain Selah Howell Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 16 Aug 1860, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 19 Dec 1941, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    4. 5. Daniel Brown Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 13 Feb 1862, , , New York, United States; died 6 Mar 1947; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    5. 6. Captain Truman Nichols Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 4 Dec 1864, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 5 Jul 1930, Bay Shore, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried 8 Jul 1930, Oak Hills Cemetery, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    6. 7. Ebenezer Darling, Junior  Descendancy chart to this point was born 2 Jan 1867, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died Abt 1867, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    7. 8. Amos Platt Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 9 Nov 1868, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 2 Jan 1919, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    8. 9. Lydia May Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 3 Aug 1870, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 1871, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    9. 10. Alida H. Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 3 May 1873, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 4 Jul 1953.
    10. 11. Mary Eliza Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 27 Jun 1874, Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Oct 1948.
    11. 12. Winfield Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 10 Jan 1877, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 4 Feb 1964; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    12. 13. Olive Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 7 Aug 1880, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died Dec 1960.


Generation: 2

  1. 2.  Henry Clay Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 9 May 1856, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 1871, Lost at sea.

  2. 3.  Caroline Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 22 Jun 1858, , Town of Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Aug 1938, Commack, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Caroline married Montraville Hubbs Abt 1873, Commack, Suffolk, New York, United States. Montraville (son of Uriah Hubbs and Susan Burr) was born Abt 1854, Smithtown, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 1936, Commack, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Commack Cemetery, Commack, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 14. Elizabeth Hubbs  Descendancy chart to this point was born 19 Jan 1876, Commack, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Sep 1928, Huntington, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  3. 4.  Captain Selah Howell Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 16 Aug 1860, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 19 Dec 1941, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Notes:

    "Saturday, September 20, 1890 - Port Jefferson - Everybody at Port Jefferson is in deep sympathy with Captain Selah Darling who has bad trouble enough to drive a less robust man crazy. Ill fortune has been steadily in his wake, frequently overtaking and wrecking his vessel and causing him heavy losses. About a year ago, he commanded the schooner vessel John Eastwood. she was loaded with lime one Sunday night and took fire in the Hudson river, opposite Sing Sing. The vessel was a total loss. Less than a month afterward he lost the schooner Globe, which went ashore near Wading River. She was also a total wreck. Last week he lost the schooner Ben Franklin off Falkner Island. He had but recently purchased her and spent $500 making repairs. He had no sooner got ashore from the wreck and reached the village than he was appraised of the death that morning of his wife from cancer."

    After the death of his wife, Sarah Jane, 31 Aug 1890 in Port Jefferson, Selah married Agnes Jane Wheeler in 1892, with whom he fathered Charles Selah, Harry Brown, Maude Evelyn, Elsie Stuart, Amy Hope and Howard Smith Darling.
    (Source: Thelma Jane Dorsey and Carolee Nichols Diamond; Suffolk County News (Sayville), Saturday, September 20, 1890, Page: 2)

    Selah married Sarah Jane Irene Smith Abt 1879. Sarah (daughter of Elihu L'Hommedieu Smith and Sarah Jane Mott) was born 22 Oct 1858, Smithtown, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 31 Aug 1890, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 15. Lillie Belle Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 15 Oct 1880, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Aug 1966, Bridgeport, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States.

    Selah married Agnes Jayne Wheeler 12 Mar 1892, , Suffolk, New York, United States. Agnes (daughter of Elkaneh Nichols Wheeler and Nancy Smith) was born 22 Dec 1867, , Town of Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 26 Oct 1953, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 16. Charles Selah Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 1 Mar 1893, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Apr 1967.
    2. 17. Harry Browne Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 8 Dec 1894, Echo, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 11 Jan 1945.
    3. 18. Maude Evelyn Darling  Descendancy chart to this point
    4. 19. Elsie Stuart Darling  Descendancy chart to this point
    5. 20. Amy Hope Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 20 Sep 1900; died 15 Aug 1919.
    6. 21. Howard Smith Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 1904; died 1963; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  4. 5.  Daniel Brown Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 13 Feb 1862, , , New York, United States; died 6 Mar 1947; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  5. 6.  Captain Truman Nichols Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 4 Dec 1864, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 5 Jul 1930, Bay Shore, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried 8 Jul 1930, Oak Hills Cemetery, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Notes:

    Email from Phyllis Higgins August 21, 2010
    The obituary for Truman Nichols Darling, July 10, 1930 in the Port Jefferson Echo states he died on Saturday which would have been July 5, and that he died at the hospital at Bay Shore. [Southside Hospital]

    OBITUARY from Port Jefferson Echo - Thursday July 10, 1930:
    CAPT. Truman Darling
    Friends were shocked to learn of the sudden death of Capt. Truman Darling which occurred at the Bay Shore hospital on Saturday evening following an operation. He was 67 years of age. He was a seafaring man for a number of years but for the past few years had been employed in the shipyard at Huntington. Funeral services were held Tuesday at 2:30 p.m. at his late home, Rev. Chas. Williams of the Methodist church officiating.
    He is survived by his widow, two daughters - Mrs. Edward Baldwin of Jamaica and Mrs. Homer Hawkins of Stony Brook, also seven sons: Fred, Selah, Russell, Ralph, Benji, Arthur, and Lawrence.

    ------------------------------------------------
    Truman N. was the son of Ebenezer Darling and Mary Melissa Howell; brother of Henry C., Caroline, Selah H., David B., Ebenezer, Amos P., Lydia, Mary E., Winfield, and Oliver.
    He married Julia Ivins Wheeler on January 10, 1885 at Stony Brook, New York. Daughters were Caroline N. - married to Edward Baldwin and Julia I. - married to Homer Hawkins. Sons are listed above.

    Truman married Julia Ivins Wheeler 10 Jan 1885, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States. Julia was born 22 Sep 1868, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 15 Dec 1933, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Oak Hills Cemetery, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 22. Caroline N. Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 26 Aug 1885, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    2. 23. Frederick E. Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 17 Nov 1887, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    3. 24. Selah Henry Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 12 Apr 1890, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    4. 25. Benjamin Truman Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 22 Aug 1892, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 3 Jun 1957.
    5. 26. Julia Irene Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 17 Nov 1894, Smithtown, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 9 Sep 1987.
    6. 27. Russell Eugene Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 2 Dec 1897, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    7. 28. Ralph Wheeler Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 12 Nov 1899, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    8. 29. Arthur Park Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 19 Feb 1902, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    9. 30. Lawrence Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 7 Sep 1904, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  6. 7.  Ebenezer Darling, Junior Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 2 Jan 1867, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died Abt 1867, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  7. 8.  Amos Platt Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 9 Nov 1868, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 2 Jan 1919, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Amos married Harriet Babcock Abt 1888, , , New York, United States. Harriet was born Apr 1866, , , New York, United States; died Abt 1926; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]


  8. 9.  Lydia May Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 3 Aug 1870, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 1871, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  9. 10.  Alida H. Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 3 May 1873, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 4 Jul 1953.

    Notes:

    Inscription:
    Mary E. their daughter, 1874 - _____ on gravestone of parents in Cedar Hil Cemetery, Port Jefferson, but apparently not buried there

    Alida married Andrew Holgerson Abt 1904, , Suffolk, New York, United States. Andrew was born Abt 1871, , , Sweden. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 31. Matilda Holgerson  Descendancy chart to this point was born Abt 1906, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    2. 32. Amy Holgerson  Descendancy chart to this point was born Abt 1908, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    3. 33. Elizabeth Holgerson  Descendancy chart to this point was born Abt 1909, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  10. 11.  Mary Eliza Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 27 Jun 1874, Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Oct 1948.

  11. 12.  Winfield Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 10 Jan 1877, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 4 Feb 1964; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Winfield married Lydia Eliza Underwood Jul 1913, , , New York, United States. Lydia (daughter of Thomas Edwin Underwood and Mary A. Brush) was born Dec 1882, Miller Place, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 23 May 1970. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 34. Floyd Winfield Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born 23 Dec 1914, Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 7 Apr 1999, Ronkonkoma, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried 2 Jun 1999, Calverton National Cemetery, Calverton, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    2. 35. Alice Winfield Darling  Descendancy chart to this point was born Abt 1917, Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Jun 1968; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
    3. 36. Phebe A. Darling  Descendancy chart to this point

  12. 13.  Olive Darling Descendancy chart to this point (1.Mary1) was born 7 Aug 1880, East Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died Dec 1960.

    Olive married Arthur Park. Arthur (son of James H. Park and Emeline M. Wheeler) was born 8 May 1874. [Group Sheet]



Generation: 3

  1. 14.  Elizabeth Hubbs Descendancy chart to this point (3.Caroline2, 1.Mary1) was born 19 Jan 1876, Commack, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Sep 1928, Huntington, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Elizabeth married Kennedy. [Group Sheet]


  2. 15.  Lillie Belle Darling Descendancy chart to this point (4.Selah2, 1.Mary1) was born 15 Oct 1880, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Aug 1966, Bridgeport, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States.

    Lillie married William Henry Valentine, Junior. William was born 25 Feb 1875, , , Connecticut, United States; died 24 Oct 1961, Bridgeport Bridgeport, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. 37. Beatrice Valentine  Descendancy chart to this point
    2. 38. Gladys Valentine  Descendancy chart to this point
    3. 39. Marion Valentine  Descendancy chart to this point
    4. 40. Earl Valentine  Descendancy chart to this point
    5. 41. William Valentine  Descendancy chart to this point

  3. 16.  Charles Selah Darling Descendancy chart to this point (4.Selah2, 1.Mary1) was born 1 Mar 1893, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Apr 1967.

    Charles married Adelaide Murray. [Group Sheet]


  4. 17.  Harry Browne Darling Descendancy chart to this point (4.Selah2, 1.Mary1) was born 8 Dec 1894, Echo, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 11 Jan 1945.

    Notes:

    Echo is now Port Jefferson Station

    Harry married Josephine Murray Cunningham. [Group Sheet]


  5. 18.  Maude Evelyn Darling Descendancy chart to this point (4.Selah2, 1.Mary1)

  6. 19.  Elsie Stuart Darling Descendancy chart to this point (4.Selah2, 1.Mary1)

  7. 20.  Amy Hope Darling Descendancy chart to this point (4.Selah2, 1.Mary1) was born 20 Sep 1900; died 15 Aug 1919.

  8. 21.  Howard Smith Darling Descendancy chart to this point (4.Selah2, 1.Mary1) was born 1904; died 1963; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Notes:

    Inscription:
    1904 Howard S. darling 1963

    Note: Buried with his father Selah H. Darling & his mother Agnes J. Wheeler

    Plot: Section G, Darling Family Plot


  9. 22.  Caroline N. Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 26 Aug 1885, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  10. 23.  Frederick E. Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 17 Nov 1887, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  11. 24.  Selah Henry Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 12 Apr 1890, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  12. 25.  Benjamin Truman Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 22 Aug 1892, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 3 Jun 1957.

  13. 26.  Julia Irene Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 17 Nov 1894, Smithtown, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 9 Sep 1987.

  14. 27.  Russell Eugene Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 2 Dec 1897, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  15. 28.  Ralph Wheeler Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 12 Nov 1899, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  16. 29.  Arthur Park Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 19 Feb 1902, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  17. 30.  Lawrence Darling Descendancy chart to this point (6.Truman2, 1.Mary1) was born 7 Sep 1904, Stony Brook, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  18. 31.  Matilda Holgerson Descendancy chart to this point (10.Alida2, 1.Mary1) was born Abt 1906, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  19. 32.  Amy Holgerson Descendancy chart to this point (10.Alida2, 1.Mary1) was born Abt 1908, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  20. 33.  Elizabeth Holgerson Descendancy chart to this point (10.Alida2, 1.Mary1) was born Abt 1909, Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  21. 34.  Floyd Winfield Darling Descendancy chart to this point (12.Winfield2, 1.Mary1) was born 23 Dec 1914, Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 7 Apr 1999, Ronkonkoma, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried 2 Jun 1999, Calverton National Cemetery, Calverton, Suffolk, New York, United States.

  22. 35.  Alice Winfield Darling Descendancy chart to this point (12.Winfield2, 1.Mary1) was born Abt 1917, Setauket, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Jun 1968; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.

    Alice married Williams. [Group Sheet]


  23. 36.  Phebe A. Darling Descendancy chart to this point (12.Winfield2, 1.Mary1)


Generation: 4

  1. 37.  Beatrice Valentine Descendancy chart to this point (15.Lillie3, 4.Selah2, 1.Mary1)

  2. 38.  Gladys Valentine Descendancy chart to this point (15.Lillie3, 4.Selah2, 1.Mary1)

  3. 39.  Marion Valentine Descendancy chart to this point (15.Lillie3, 4.Selah2, 1.Mary1)

  4. 40.  Earl Valentine Descendancy chart to this point (15.Lillie3, 4.Selah2, 1.Mary1)

  5. 41.  William Valentine Descendancy chart to this point (15.Lillie3, 4.Selah2, 1.Mary1)


 

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