Captain Selah Howell Darling
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1. Captain Selah Howell Darling was born 16 Aug 1860, Northport, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 19 Dec 1941, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States. Notes:
"Saturday, September 20, 1890 - Port Jefferson - Everybody at Port Jefferson is in deep sympathy with Captain Selah Darling who has bad trouble enough to drive a less robust man crazy. Ill fortune has been steadily in his wake, frequently overtaking and wrecking his vessel and causing him heavy losses. About a year ago, he commanded the schooner vessel John Eastwood. she was loaded with lime one Sunday night and took fire in the Hudson river, opposite Sing Sing. The vessel was a total loss. Less than a month afterward he lost the schooner Globe, which went ashore near Wading River. She was also a total wreck. Last week he lost the schooner Ben Franklin off Falkner Island. He had but recently purchased her and spent $500 making repairs. He had no sooner got ashore from the wreck and reached the village than he was appraised of the death that morning of his wife from cancer."
After the death of his wife, Sarah Jane, 31 Aug 1890 in Port Jefferson, Selah married Agnes Jane Wheeler in 1892, with whom he fathered Charles Selah, Harry Brown, Maude Evelyn, Elsie Stuart, Amy Hope and Howard Smith Darling.
(Source: Thelma Jane Dorsey and Carolee Nichols Diamond; Suffolk County News (Sayville), Saturday, September 20, 1890, Page: 2)Selah married Sarah Jane Irene Smith Abt 1879. Sarah (daughter of Elihu L'Hommedieu Smith and Sarah Jane Mott) was born 22 Oct 1858, Smithtown, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 31 Aug 1890, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]
Children:
- 2. Lillie Belle Darling
was born 15 Oct 1880, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Aug 1966, Bridgeport, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States.
Selah married Agnes Jayne Wheeler 12 Mar 1892, , Suffolk, New York, United States. Agnes (daughter of Elkaneh Nichols Wheeler and Nancy Smith) was born 22 Dec 1867, , Town of Brookhaven, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 26 Oct 1953, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States. [Group Sheet]
Children:
- 3. Charles Selah Darling
was born 1 Mar 1893, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Apr 1967.
- 4. Harry Browne Darling
was born 8 Dec 1894, Echo, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 11 Jan 1945.
- 5. Maude Evelyn Darling
- 6. Elsie Stuart Darling
- 7. Amy Hope Darling
was born 20 Sep 1900; died 15 Aug 1919.
- 8. Howard Smith Darling
was born 1904; died 1963; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
- 2. Lillie Belle Darling
Generation: 2
2. Lillie Belle Darling (1.Selah1) was born 15 Oct 1880, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 16 Aug 1966, Bridgeport, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States.
Lillie married William Henry Valentine, Junior. William was born 25 Feb 1875, , , Connecticut, United States; died 24 Oct 1961, Bridgeport Bridgeport, Fairfield, Connecticut, United States. [Group Sheet]
Children:
- 9. Beatrice Valentine
- 10. Gladys Valentine
- 11. Marion Valentine
- 12. Earl Valentine
- 13. William Valentine
- 9. Beatrice Valentine
3. Charles Selah Darling (1.Selah1) was born 1 Mar 1893, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 29 Apr 1967.
Charles married Adelaide Murray. [Group Sheet]
4. Harry Browne Darling (1.Selah1) was born 8 Dec 1894, Echo, Suffolk, New York, United States; died 11 Jan 1945.
Notes:
Echo is now Port Jefferson Station
Harry married Josephine Murray Cunningham. [Group Sheet]
5. Maude Evelyn Darling (1.Selah1)
6. Elsie Stuart Darling (1.Selah1)
7. Amy Hope Darling (1.Selah1) was born 20 Sep 1900; died 15 Aug 1919.
8. Howard Smith Darling (1.Selah1) was born 1904; died 1963; was buried , Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson, Suffolk, New York, United States.
Notes:
Inscription:
1904 Howard S. darling 1963
Note: Buried with his father Selah H. Darling & his mother Agnes J. Wheeler
Plot: Section G, Darling Family Plot
Generation: 3
9. Beatrice Valentine (2.Lillie2, 1.Selah1)
10. Gladys Valentine (2.Lillie2, 1.Selah1)
11. Marion Valentine (2.Lillie2, 1.Selah1)
12. Earl Valentine (2.Lillie2, 1.Selah1)
13. William Valentine (2.Lillie2, 1.Selah1)